Monday, June 28, 2004

I told you so

Anyone read the last article? Well I went to the mall yesterday , and went into a clothing store with the wife. We took the youngest child, and he was lagging behind. Sometimes he likes to walk by himself, and he's slow sometimes. Or maybe he gets interested in somthing else. Anyway I was hanging with him trying to keep him entertained yesterday. My wife walked into the store ahead of me. I was trying to let her look at clothes, keep the kid occupied so she could look at stuff. and I'm sure she didn't catch it but the brother working there was trying to approach her and then came up to me as I came in and was like "Oh yall together?" I didn't even bother pointing it out and didn't know if she caught it.Where do these kids get their balls nowdays anyway? Or is it stupidity? But I guess they play the "you're man is a jealous asshole , I'm just trying to flatter a beautiful lady (or "female" as they say around here) thing. Guys know this stalker mentality, but gotta sit down and hear things like "But he didn't do anything." I decided to leave and go buy a shirt . So me and the boy went and looked at shirts and looked at puppies.They were playful yesterday because I guess they were coming down off the drugs they always have them on. You can tell the pet store here has all the animals on some damn valiums or some shit. I just had to do somthing else. When I came back , the kid at the store had finally found a stupid NBC teen (see previous article for definition) who was lauging at everything he was saying. I kept my mouth shut the whole time. Because in today's world I realize there are so many people using guys like me as scapegoats for their behavior. I usually point this shit out to my wife but i think she may get tired of my shit if I keep it up. It's a guy thing really, pointing out the damn injustice done to men who "play by the rules." Women don't seem to care if a man is a lying womanising piece of shit. Most guys I know who are unfaithful are some of the most believed and trusted guys in the world. Do you know women are more likely to think of an honest guy as a liar or "trying to put somthing over on them "? It's true. Maybe an average guy who may have told a little white lie so he could help himself out of a situation hhe got into trying to do the "right thing" . If he ever got caught , then he may be branded a "deciever". Everyone bullshits once in a while. But a guy who is all bullshit seems to be more trusted . Or a "quiet" guy. Why do people assume that quiet guys are so "good"? I see this shit all the time. Quiet guys who have no personality. Like they are "mysterious." Most of these guys are avid cheaters. I know a lot of these types and they are probably the second most common unfaithful males I know. The first is black males. Sorry , I know I'm predictable on this one but it's the truth in my world a t least. I have been around thousands of black males over the years and can count on one hand ones who are faithful to a woman. Even (and especially) the brothers who are really into church. I had a black guy who used to work for me who was a big "youth director" at a church. Came down to the club one night with a girl who wasn't his wife, then tried to hook up with another girl why he was there. But don't say God damn in front of him , he'll get offended. My old cleaning guy was a schoolteacher, and he was fucking students. His wife came down one day. Now he had so many women, but to hear him introduce his wife you'd think he was worshipping her. I meet so many people , and he had had another chick before I though was his wife and I said "Oh haven't I met her before?" Found out after she left that was another girlfriend. The thing is these guys are never accused of lying about anything by their women. So next time you think a man is lying, think twice about what kind of guy he is. And don't think it's a "racial" thing with me . Maybe I just know all the bad ones.